tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4157626698953495821.post5191419227748784938..comments2023-10-31T09:45:48.104-04:00Comments on Ms Graysea: QuietMsGrayseahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09904170938207154612noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4157626698953495821.post-72580087587463787312008-12-28T19:14:00.000-05:002008-12-28T19:14:00.000-05:00Thanks Amy, I have been in relationships where the...Thanks Amy, I have been in relationships where the waiting was almost obsessive and I did nothing for myself or others...very unhealthy...while waiting. Now, I look on it as an opportunity to nurture my own needs so that I can be a better partner, and with LM he has many obligations to others n his life. He is always in touch by phone every few hours though. He always needs to know I am OK and I need the same from him. He has NEVER left me wondering where he is, etc and I so appreciate that. <BR/>I also wanted to tell you that my sister waited 10 years for a man who was raising his 4 children alone. Finally, when the last one was in college they put their lives together and it was heavenly. I say, was, because after 5 yrs of marriage, he died of melanoma. A heartbreak beyond words after they waited so long.<BR/>Are you working full-time?MsGrayseahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09904170938207154612noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4157626698953495821.post-49237832602360560782008-12-28T18:10:00.003-05:002008-12-28T18:10:00.003-05:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.amy in cthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02243667775305445223noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4157626698953495821.post-58668036235386985482008-12-28T18:10:00.002-05:002008-12-28T18:10:00.002-05:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.amy in cthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02243667775305445223noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4157626698953495821.post-32673641311864747492008-12-28T18:10:00.001-05:002008-12-28T18:10:00.001-05:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.amy in cthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02243667775305445223noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4157626698953495821.post-20739328012515016452008-12-28T18:10:00.000-05:002008-12-28T18:10:00.000-05:00funny how we treat our 'pets' like they are equal ...funny how we treat our 'pets' like they are equal members of society... well, i guess some of them really are :)<BR/>hope LM is better soon, it sucks to be sick especially at the holiday time. i have to tell you i enjoy your encouraging words, you help get me thru the waiting periods, knowing i am not the only one who waits.<BR/>i hope you get to go on another road trip soon.<BR/>amyamy in cthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02243667775305445223noreply@blogger.com